20 Question Tag! And Apparently I'm It!

I have taken it upon myself to start a 20 question tag, a game of sorts. I personally tagged Tige and he tagged Stacy, it seems I now have been tagged. So here I go... LETS BEGIN! 1. Best memory? My honeymoon, it was my first road trip and it was exciting. It was just me and my husband driving around for 1 week. We went to Lake Tahoe, Placerville, Sacramento, San Francisco, all over. Driving was really the most fun though. 2. Most terrible day? So many to choose from... The day my papa (g-g-pa) died. I was eleven and we were told he was going to make it, but when we went home that night they called to say he died. 2nd worst (not a word, I know) day was when my best-friend Kimberly died our freshmen year of high school. I found out later that day, even though she died 5th period. 3. Birth City? Daley City, California 4. Favorite thing to do? Blogging (duh!!), drinking with friends ( rum & coke anyone?!), and traveling any where new. 5. Hollywood Crush? And why? Christian Bale because he is an AMAZING actor, attractive of course, and he is married to a celebrity's assistant and I love that. 6. Favorite food? Pot stickers baby!!! 7. City you want to visit most and why? I would love to spend my life traveling so this is a hard question. Dusseldorf, Germany would be amazing. Barbados because I want to go some where tropical and I read a book that took place there, that has always inspired me to go. 8. Fantasy/dream that you want to come true? I have SO many. Finding my father, becoming a writer, traveling the world... 9. Favorite sport? Okay favorite sport to play is Soccer, because I'm decent at it. Is hiking a sport? Or Poker? LOL, hmm is sitting on my fat a$$ all day scanning the internet a sport yet? 10. How long have you been married? 7 years in April 11. Favorite song and why? My Humps?!! Kidding people, kidding! Okay I love Paradise City by Guns & Roses, anything by Jewel and a song that encompasses me or most of me is, Close My Eyes by Mariah Carey. 12. Someone you most admire? This is a hard one because I have never really admired anyone. People are so imperfect that it seems ridiculous to admire someone, why would I, after all, but if I think real hard and I have to come up with someone, than I admire people that overcome life changing obstacles. (i.e. someone losing their legs, mother dying, and/or disfigured.) 13. Someone you hate and why? I find it hard to hate people that I know, even ones that deserve it. I could hate a plethora of step-dads for VERY good reasons but I just can't arise any more emotion for those kind of people. So I will say that I HATE people that abuse physically or sexually a child. Those people are scum. 14. Secret crush? (Hollywood doesn't count) I have no "real" life crushes, and even if I did I wouldn't tell. LOL My hubby reads this blog people, are you insane! 15. One (maybe 2) rule/s you live by? I have many rules I live by. Honesty, Kindness, always treating someone the way you want to be treated (golden rule) and trying my hardest to NEVER judge another individual. 16. Do you believe in God? Yes, which is why I live by those rules. 17. A dark secret (we won't tell)? Sheeshh I have so many. Although if I'm willing to tell it's NOT really a secret is it? When I was a child (11) my mother and I would steal from stores. We are talking T.V's, things like that. Oh and don't forget the lip gloss and hair scrunchies. 18. Most treasured item and why? My children. Everything else could burn to the ground and I could manage, but my children are my life. On a side note if I had to pick ONE material thing it would be this kind of big orange, green, and yellow stripped fish with giant lips that was given to me while my family and I waited for my papa (g-g-pa) to regain consciousness. He did but than died a day later. I have kept that fish through all my moves and there have been many. 19. If you could turn back time, what would you do and why? Finish school, even though I later received my G.E.D it was never the same. I would make sure my grandfather knew how much I loved him and how important he was to me. I would tell my best-friend that she was an inspiration to me and that I was just to self-conscious to tell her. Oh and I'd invest in yahoo or maybe Cisco. ;0) 20. Last but certainly not least, what kind of "work" do you do and do you enjoy it? I am a stay-at-home mom of 3 pain in the butt's and I also do this blog here, does that count as work? I could be long winded and list ALL the things that being a mom includes but I think you know them. So feel some pity for me people! Okay so the first game of 20 questions has begun, and feel free to join in and play along. This is a first for me, so if you decide to play please email me and I will gladly link you. Since this is my first time please excuse me if the questions are un-original and boring, but I love that kind of stuff. I would just like to remind everyone that whom they choose to tag is their own choice and they can even choose different questions if they'd like. Don't forget to let me know!!! Hope this game is fun! Oh and GIVE HONEST Answers! I have tagged Renee! (I will link when she finishes) Links to players: 1. Tige,T-T-F-N. 2. Stacy The Sweetest Gal I know, ~sigh~ 3. Cheeky lotus, aka Lena from the block 4. Renee if she can't blog "it" no one can. 5. Chris, he's a horse of course! 6. PM, Pure Mood. ;0) 7. DesLily,animal lover and practical joker. 8. Ben, he takes the path less traveled 9. Caltechgirl, she has her Ph.D, ya go head and hate her too. :0)